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• oct 01, 2022 •

Living with Chronic Pain: Can It Get Better?

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Chronic illness is something people can either see or they can't see. Sometimes, even the people we love just don't seem to understand.

 

They might even lose patience because your illness is "invisible" (e.g. IBS, diabetes, chronic pain, lupus).

 

And while other chronic illnesses are more visible, all of them can be limiting.

 

Chronic illness is also an emotional experience. We feel sad and discouraged when people don't "get it."

 

We feel lonely without support, anger at the unfairness, and even shame when we need to put ourselves first.

 

We also celebrate with overwhelming joy when we hear the words, "YOU'RE IN REMISSION!"

 

Support and its benefits are limited only by our imaginations.

 

If you have chronic illness, I bet you've felt that support is hard to find.

 

I'm here to remind you that you're not alone.

"Nobody really understands what I'm going through."

What to Do

1. Reach out

Whether it's me, a friend or family member, or just someone you feel comfortable with a trust, talk to someone. If the first person doesn't work out, find the next.

 

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2. Find a therapist

I would love to work with you, to be someone you can talk to and feel comfortable with.

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3. Find a support group

If you can't leave home, there are a lot of online groups that are just as rewarding. If you are still unsure of who to reach out to, ask your doctor about referral recommendations.

4. Find yourself again

Never forget who you are, the unchanging core that is you. If you can't remember your "self" pre-diagnosis, try new things! It's never too late, and nothing is ever too impractical. Turn your illness into a never-ending journey of discovery for the treasure that is you.

The Reality

You are not your diagnosis.  Believe me when I say: You may bend, but you will never break.

 

In the trenches is where we fight, win, lose, laugh, and cry. It's also where we find out how strong we really are and what we need.

 

  • We need support and to allow ourselves to experience it.

  • We need to know we're not alone.

  • We may need reminding that our own bad habits can make our illness worse.

Written by Dr. Michael Christian • Founder, Clinical Director & Senior Advisor

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